**Leading Through Pain: Lessons from the Cross**
In the heart of every leader, especially those called to ministry, there lies a profound struggle—a struggle to balance the weight of the cross with the purpose of their calling. This past Sunday, we delved into the final words of Jesus on the cross, not as mere reflections, but as powerful lessons in leadership. These words, spoken in the midst of excruciating pain, offer us a blueprint for leading through life's most challenging moments.
**1. Leading Honestly Through Pain**
In Matthew 27:46, Jesus cries out, "My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?" This haunting question is not a sign of weakness but a testament to His depth and honesty. Jesus, quoting Psalm 22, teaches us that leadership requires honesty about our pain. It's a reminder that even in the center of God's will, we may feel the silence of heaven. Yet, this silence does not equate to abandonment. As leaders, we must learn to express our anguish and lead through pain, not without it.
**2. Acknowledging Our Needs Without Shame**
In John 19:28, Jesus declares, "I am thirsty." This simple statement is profoundly human. It reminds us that acknowledging our needs does not diminish our anointing; it affirms our humanity. Leaders are not called to be superhuman. We are allowed to be tired, to need help, and to admit our thirst. Denying our needs only makes us fragile. Jesus shows us that it's okay to express our needs and seek replenishment from God's presence.
**3. Focusing on Finishing Faithfully**
When Jesus says, "It is finished" (John 19:30), He is not admitting defeat but declaring victory. The mission was complete, the debt paid, and the prophecy fulfilled. As leaders, we are called to focus on finishing faithfully, not just starting strong. Ministry is a marathon, not a sprint. It's about crossing the finish line, scarred but still standing. We must persevere, even when the journey is tough, and trust that God values our faithful finish over a flashy start.
**4. Trusting God with the Outcomes**
Finally, in Luke 23:46, Jesus commits His spirit into the Father's hands. This act of trust teaches us to release control and trust God with the outcomes. We cannot carry what we are meant to commit to Him. Our hands are limited, but God's hands are vast and capable. Whether it's our careers, relationships, or ministries, we must place them in God's hands, knowing that He can handle what we cannot.
**Conclusion: Leading Like Jesus**
The lessons from the cross are not just for reflection but for action. As leaders, whether in our families, businesses, or churches, we are called to lead with a cross-shaped commitment. We must be willing to bleed without bitterness, serve even when empty, and trust God with the weight of our calling. Jesus didn't just die for us; He taught us how to lead through pain and purpose. Let us embrace these lessons and lead with tears in our eyes, a towel in our hand, and a spirit of "tetelestai"—it is finished, but we are not.
May we all find strength in these lessons and continue to lead faithfully, trusting that even our crucifixions will end in resurrections. Amen.